Tag Archives: dementia
Parental Journal 24 from Planet Elderly: “She was always a pretty good girl.”
Into day three of fifth visit. Mom’s short term memory seems worse to me, and I’m trying to be patient and stay calm because she is so easily upset. I’m doing a pretty good job so far because she keeps … Continue reading
Parental Journal 22 from Planet Elderly: Uneasy Time Away in Missouri
September 11, 2015 evening I’ve been home in mid-MO for a few weeks. At first I felt numb because not only did I have elderly parents in northern Illinois, I had other family members with drama going on here in … Continue reading
Parental Journal 21 from Planet Elderly: “Let Me Call You Sweetheart”
Thurs. Aug. 27, 2015 5 p.m. Ending visit number four…with a few bruises, but also with some clarity. Mom’s mood swings have been up and down a lot. It’s fear and confusion, and it’s difficult to watch. The two or … Continue reading
Parental Journal 20 from Planet Elderly: “My Eye Popped Out”
Sunday, Aug. 23, 2015 6 a.m. Last night at 11 p.m. Mom received a call from Victory Lakes telling her that Dad is okay, but that he sustained a laceration on his leg…something about when he was in the bathroom. … Continue reading
Parental Journal 19 from Planet Elderly: Mom Doesn’t Want To Talk About It
Been treading murky waters with Mom. It’s difficult to see her so confused at times. Yet her mindset is saying: I must learn to do and manage everything myself. I decided to plant a big seed the other day. I … Continue reading
Parental Journal 17 from Planet Elderly: Visit #4 Starts With a Warning Ticket
August 15, 2015 4 p.m. It’s been around 5 weeks since my last visit. Dad is doing well in the skilled nursing facility. Mom is often an emotional wreck, and her cognitive functioning seems to be quite shaky at times. … Continue reading
Parental Journal 16 from Planet Elderly: Preparing for the Next Visit and More Confusion
August 7, 2015 10:30 a.m. I’ve been able to be in Missouri for several weeks and things in Illinois have been fairly quiet. Mom and I agreed that if she needs me, she’ll call. There were few calls at first … Continue reading
Parental Journal 15 from Planet Elderly: Confused Thoughts, Failed Filing System, and Old Bourbon
June 30, 2015 afternoon This two-week visit is coming to an end. Dad’s birthday is tomorrow and I return to MO on Thurs. July 2. My next scheduled visit is Aug. 13 – 20 for Mom’s birthday on the 16th…unless … Continue reading
Parental Journal 14 from Planet Elderly: “I Love You But This Is Tearing Us Apart”
Wednesday, June 24, 2015 early afternoon I remember being quite anxious about making this trip up to see my folks. Wanted to be with Dad for Father’s Day and his 93rd birthday on July 1, but not wanting to deal … Continue reading