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About Jenny Mummert

This blog was originally titled "Drifting Toward Planet Elderly," and it shared a journey I had with my elderly parents as they both went through their later years battling the complexities of dementia. After both passed on, I changed the title to "Living on Planet Elderly." I am a retiree who is reluctantly adjusting to the reality that she is now elderly. In July of 2021, I relocated to Middleton WI after living in Columbia MO for over 40 years. I decided that I want to experience a new and vibrant location in a cooler climate with lakes...a bucket list item of mine. I have a first cousin who lives in Madison. We have nice childhood memories, and I thought it would be wonderful to spend some time together as elders. It was. AND THEN....in March 2023, I returned to Columbia. I had a wonderful time experiencing the Madison area of Wisconsin, spending time with my cousin, and making some wonderful friends. No regrets.

Parental Journal 69 from Planet Elderly – Second Attempt to Pass the Driving Test

Thursday, July 7, 2016 – late morning As I type, I’m waiting for Mom and Kevin to return from her second attempt to pass the driving test.  I’m nervous. She and Kevin attempted to do this yesterday, but the line … Continue reading

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Parental Journal 68 from Planet Elderly – Mom’s Date with Tarzan

Thursday, July 7, 2016 – early morning Sometimes there are bonus days, and yesterday was one. Dad was quite groggy and unresponsive during our morning and midday visits.  By 4 p.m. we were sitting in the living room.  Mom was … Continue reading

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Parental Journal 67 from Planet Elderly – Driving Test: One Attempt Down, Two to Go

Tuesday, July 5, 2016 – evening Mom failed the driving test today.  (Yea!)   She plans to return tomorrow to retake it. (Groan) We visited Dad in the morning and had an 11:30 a.m. appointment to pick up her new driving … Continue reading

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Parental Journal 66 from Planet Elderly – Driver’s License Outcome Delayed, Physician Fired, Birthday Preparations

Wednesday, June 29, 2016 – Evening Driver’s License Renewal Saga Yesterday morning Mom was tired.  “We don’t have to do anything special today, do we?” I reminded her of the driver’s exam. “I don’t want to take it today.” G.R.O.A.N. … Continue reading

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Parental Journal 65 from Planet Elderly- This Visit Starts with a Roller Coaster Ride

Monday, June 27, 2016 – evening Not a Quiet Drive Up Yesterday Phone Call #1:  The drive up went well for the most part; however, I received a call from Mom around 9:30 a.m.  “Where are you?  I thought you … Continue reading

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Parental Journal 64 from Planet Elderly – Packing for the Next Trip: Dad’s 94th Birthday

Saturday, June 25, 2016  evening Tomorrow I head back up to Grayslake to spend some time with Mom and visit Dad.  This is expected to be a short visit.  Dad turns 94 July 1, so we’ll celebrate a bit with … Continue reading

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Parental Journal 63 from Planet Elderly – Respite Time Back in Missouri for a Few Weeks

Saturday, June 4, 2016  mid-morning This is the view I see each morning at my new rental place.   This is the view I need to see each morning.  I feel so fortunate to have Mom’s neighbor, Kevin, as part of … Continue reading

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Parental Journal 62 from Planet Elderly – Another “Dad Wants a Divorce” Delusional Episode

Monday, May 16, 2016  9:30 a.m. Although it’s good to be back in Missouri, it’s also unsettling.  It’s difficult to adjust after a month at Mom’s and shadowing her schedule. Arrived back on Saturday, called Mom to let her know … Continue reading

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Parental Journal 61 from Planet Elderly – Heading Back to Missouri to Recharge

Friday, May 13, 2016  evening Time to recharge.  The situation here is not ideal, but it is stable enough to let me go back to my regular life for a while. Diagnosis of moderate dementia has been received. Mom denies … Continue reading

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Parental Journal 60 from Planet Elderly – Diagnosis Explained, Emotional Tornadoes, and Plans

Wednesday, May 11, 2016  afternoon It’s mind boggling to think about all that has transpired over the past 48 hours or so, but at least things have leveled out a bit and the high drama and hysterics are on the … Continue reading

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