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About Jenny Mummert

This blog was originally titled "Drifting Toward Planet Elderly," and it shared a journey I had with my elderly parents as they both went through their later years battling the complexities of dementia. After both passed on, I changed the title to "Living on Planet Elderly." I am a retiree who is reluctantly adjusting to the reality that she is now elderly. In July of 2021, I relocated to Middleton WI after living in Columbia MO for over 40 years. I decided that I want to experience a new and vibrant location in a cooler climate with lakes...a bucket list item of mine. I have a first cousin who lives in Madison. We have nice childhood memories, and I thought it would be wonderful to spend some time together as elders. It was. AND THEN....in March 2023, I returned to Columbia. I had a wonderful time experiencing the Madison area of Wisconsin, spending time with my cousin, and making some wonderful friends. No regrets.

Parental Journal 09 from Planet Elderly: Gradually Adjusting to a New Chapter

Sunday, April 12, 2015 6:30 a.m. Very calm day yesterday. We had a nice visit with Dad and Mom didn’t cry much. At one point yesterday she asked me, “Do you think Dad is ever coming home?” I told her … Continue reading

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Parental Journal 08 from Planet Elderly: Issues and the Oxygen Argument

Tues. April 8, 2015 morning Dad had a low grade fever yesterday, so the nurse kept him in the dementia wing during lunch. We visited with him there, but he did not eat anything. Nursing staff are concerned about the … Continue reading

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Parental Journal 07 from Planet Elderly: Wearing Out My Welcome

Parental Journal 07 April 6, 2015 I think I’m kind of wearing out my welcome. On one hand, Mom is extremely grateful I’m here helping to organize paperwork, help advocate, keep her on track, do a little cooking, etc. On … Continue reading

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Parental Journal 06 from Planet Elderly: Preparing to Transition Dad to Long-term Care

Parental Journal 06 March 30 – April 1, 2015 Mon. March 30, 2015 – late afternoon Once we arrived at The Village today, Mom was talking again about wanting to take Dad home. She cried a lot, went to visit … Continue reading

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Parental Journal 05 from Planet Elderly: Insistance, Confusion, and Rip Van Winkle

It’s interesting to re-read journal entries and edit them a bit, before I post them here.  I’m an only child baby boomer who has elderly parents dealing with dementia/Alzheimer (Dad-93) and short-term memory loss (Mom-almost 89).  We live 400 miles … Continue reading

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Parental Journal Entry 04 from Planet Elderly: Some Interesting Acquaintances

Parental Journal 04 March 26, 2015 afternoon Transition time ahead. Dad goes from the rehab care paid for by Medicare to respite care, not paid for by Medicare. The facility allows up to three weeks of respite care paid for … Continue reading

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Parental Journal 03 from Planet Elderly: From Hospital to Rehab

Parental Journal Monday March 23, 2015 evening Mom and I had a conference today to discuss Dad’s discharge from the rehab section of where he is now. She has vacillated between getting him home and keeping him at the Village. … Continue reading

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Parental Journal 01 and 02 from Planet Elderly: Apprenticeship Begins

This is the year I’m involved in a genuine apprenticeship on Planet Elderly.  I gave up a part-time community college teaching assignment in order to be on call if/when my elderly parents need my assistance.  They live in the NW … Continue reading

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Thanksgiving Kudos to Amtrak

I decided to take Amtrak this Thanksgiving rather than fly. Glad I did. Typically, I would drive from Columbia, MO to St. Louis. Then I’d take Southwest Airlines to Midway Airport in Chicago. Then I’d get a shuttle to Union … Continue reading

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Encounter with Italian Chef

Aug. 12, 2009 – Chef Encounter   So I was taking the 10:30 p.m. Chicago Metra from Union Station to Grayslake, IL  and one of the last passengers to get on was a man who sat in front of me.  … Continue reading

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